What is Love & Marriage?

A student ask a teacher, "what is love ?"

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question,go to the padi field and choose the biggest padi and come back. But the rule is: you can go throught them only once and cannot turnback to pick."

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big padi,but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later. Then he sawanother bigger one... but may be there is a even bigger one waiting forhim.

Later, when he finished more than half of the padi field, he start to realise that the padi is not as big as the previous one he saw, heknowhe has missed the biggest one,and he regretted !!!! So, he ended up went back to the teacher withempty hand. The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise, you have already miss the person...."

" What is marriage then ?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go throught them only once and cannot turnback to pick.

" The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to theteacher.

The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... this is marriage ."









FAZIT: Its does matter which padi, lalang ,corn or even strawberry that u want to pick because everything has their own risk .Made mistake are the worst nightmare that we want to avoid desperately .But as we know, we are just human being not Ultraman or even Powerpuffgirls, so guys learn to forgive yourself and bare in mind for not doing it again.
Yes, nothing as easy as it looks.But every single of us received our own 'challenge' from Allah.

To my friends, yes u can stand under my umbrella as long as u want .But forgive me if my umbrella wasn't perfect for you.(koyak ke, not ur colour, not big enough , payung Rossman je ke or etc.)

So people have a pleasant monday morning..(everybody has monday-morning-sickness.is it? hehehhe)


p/S : this cencurut is just anonymous, not my kid of course .Last weekend was interesting.We went to Edbeer-pflücken , big Dinner at Linda's house and had suprise guests with 2 cute cencurut.Though a little hectic,tiring and need some rationalization with some stuff .
It was nice exchanging opinion with others but as for me take the good, swallow the bad and spit out the bitter.